This is my first personal blog so I am not sure that it will even be successful but here it is anyway! I am a mother which you will soon see in my posts is the most important thing in my life. I have two teenagers in my house which is quite the challenge. My son is 17 and a senior in high school and my daughter is 14 and a freshman in high school. I can say that they are very good children for the most part. Neither of them go out partying, or doing drugs and they both excel in school. My son is very athletic & artistic and my daughter is on a step team as she loves to dance. I also have a 9 year old daughter and a 2 year old daughter. We have a very full house to say the least! My 9 year old is so sweet and such an emotional child. She can sympathize with everyone and everything and just loves everyone by default. She was born very early weighing a whopping 3lbs and 13 inches long! By the grace of God, she was healthy and only had to stay in the hospital for a short time. Then there is my baby girl...She is by far a handful! I'm not sure if it's because it took us so many years to have her and by the time she was born our youngest at the time was 7 or what! Perhaps after not having a baby in the house for 7 years we forgot how to do it or got older and lost our patience or something, lol. She is a wonderful blessing and I thank God for her everyday. That being said, she has been the most challenging 2 year old I have met. She is very much attached to me to the point that I can't even use the restroom without her holding my hand. My hair is her security blanket so getting any "me" time is nearly impossible.
I am also a wife, to my best friend. Before you decide you want to vomit thinking that we are that mushy, kissing all the time couple I can assure you that is not the case. My husband is my best friend, I can tell him anything without judgement, he can deal with chaos better than anyone I know and I love him completely. We are not the mushy kind of couple as we have 4 children in the house and well they get grossed out if we just give each other a peck on the lips in front of them! We have a mutual respect for one another, we talk to each other everyday (actually having a conversation) and we trust one another 100%. I think that those three things are the key to a lasting marriage or relationship. Don't get me wrong we do bicker every now and again, but usually it's just me moaning & groaning about everything that has built up over that past month or whatever and doesn't even involve him. However I am this emotional, random and sometimes irrational person and he just happens to be there so I yell a little and then it's over. Personally, I think that it's healthy to have an argument now and then as long as it is just that a little argument.
I am a partner in a small novelty business with one of my closest girl friends as well. This is a relatively new business, only being "live" for a year. I admit it is a little difficult to say the least, to run an online novelty business when you have children running around but it is very fun! Our little business is only a website, no physical store at this time but I do hope to open a brick and mortar store in the next couple of years. Instead of being a one stop shop for creepy pervs we are geared towards couples building a better sexual relationship. I think that a healthy sex life with your partner of course, leads to an overall better life.
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